Seasons for Growth trainer, coordinator and resource distribution Jess Ferroni—who works out of Catholic Social Services’ offices on Tory Street in Wellington’s Te Aro—shares some of the changes she has seen in groups she has facilitated.
Billy* (aged 7) joined a group during a time of great instability. At first, he was withdrawn. He would sit quietly apart from the others, even bringing a morning tea he wouldn’t eat.
Over the programme, Jess watched him slowly connect with his peers. He began sharing morning tea with the group, joining in confidently and offering thoughtful reflections. During a session about family change, Billy shared his anger about what he had been through. Jess reassured him that all emotions are welcome, he was able to name what he had been carrying, and the relief on his face was immediate.
Maryanne’s* experience was similar, though she came to it as an adult. She arrived nervous and unsure she would fit in, after significant changes in her life.
As she listened to others speak about change, loss and hope, she realised she wasn’t alone. Over time she found the confidence to share her own story and felt accepted without judgement. By the end, she told Jess she felt connected, valued and supported.
These might be different ages, different stories, but the discovery is the same: belonging comes from being yourself and knowing you matter.
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*Names have been changed to protect privacy
